Stretch Marks, Love Handles, Thunder Thighs, O My!

So I have recently fallin in love with crop tops and though in the past I would have never dared to wear one, I have decided to just wear them with confidence. I never thought I had the body type to wear crop tops but if I wait around to have that "ideal body type" I will end up never wearing the clothing that I want to wear. 

Today I decided to wear a crop top. 

I have gotten over the body type issue but another issue popped up. As I looked in the mirror I saw them...stretch marks. I have always known that I have stretch marks but they never showed before because I was wearing full lengths shirts. 

I looked at my stretch marks on my stomach and smiled. 

Yes, I smiled. 

I love my body, my body type and my stretch marks. I realized that in that moment I made a decision to love myself instead of criticize. I know that this is a daily battle for everybody but how you feel about your body is in your hands, so today look at yourself in the mirror and smile. Do not say a word or make a comparison, just smile, even if you have to force it. Hopefully one day that smile will real. 

Maybe for you it's not stretch marks, whatever it is, look at that part and smile. Each and every part of you is beautiful, so smile!

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